Success is often seen as reaching big goals—getting the promotion, earning more money, or gaining recognition. But is that really what success is all about? In Paula Neva Vail’s book, Why Am I So Happy?: The Sign of True Success is a Happy Heart, she reminds us that real success isn’t just about what we achieve; it’s about how we feel. The key to it all? A happy heart.
Let’s be honest: we’re all chasing something, whether it’s career achievements, financial goals, or personal milestones. And while it’s exciting to hit those targets, the truth is, if you’re not happy on the inside, those wins can feel empty. Paula’s message is simple but powerful—if you don’t feel joy and contentment, all the external success in the world won’t truly make you successful.
What’s amazing about a happy heart is that it brings you a sense of real, lasting fulfillment. When you stop chasing more—more money, more status, more stuff—you start to see the beauty in the everyday things. You begin to appreciate the small moments, the people you love, and the peace that comes with simply being. You no longer need external validation to feel successful because your happiness comes from within.
Paula’s take is that happiness doesn’t come from a bigger paycheck or a fancier job title; it comes from moments of connection, laughter, and self-acceptance. True success is about living a life where you feel good about who you are and what you’re doing. And when your heart is happy, everything else falls into place.
So, the next time you’re measuring your success, stop and ask yourself: how do I feel? As Paula Neva Vail beautifully explains in Why Am I So Happy?: The Sign of True Success is a Happy Heart, when your heart is filled with joy and peace, that’s when you know you’ve found the real meaning of success.
