MEME's Archives - Amy Jo Honey

Hope in the Face of Control – Rising Above Fear and Oppression

amyhoney March 1, 2025 April 4, 2025MEME's

In times of uncertainty, when those in power seem determined to tighten their grip, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. It’s easy to believe that the system is too big, too corrupt, too impossible to change. That’s exactly what they want you to think. Instead, we are going to choose rising above fear and oppression. They want you to feel trauma.Because a traumatized mind is easier to manipulate. When you are constantly anxious, constantly reacting, constantly in a state of survival mode, you don’t have the energy to resist. You don’t have the clarity to think for yourself. You don’t have the strength to rise. They want you to feel hopeless.Because when you believe nothing will ever change, you stop trying. You stop questioning. You stop standing up for yourself and for those around you. They want you to accept the world as they’ve designed it—where you have no power, no voice, no future beyond what they allow. They want you to feel powerless.Because people who believe they have no control will not fight back. They will not unite. They will not challenge authority. Powerless people become obedient people. And obedience, without question, is how oppression thrives. But here’s what they don’t want you to realize. Your spirit is stronger than their control. Your mind is capable of breaking free from their narrative. And, your heart is resilient beyond their imagination. You are not powerless.You are not alone.And no system, no government, no force in history has ever been able to suppress people who refuse to…

Why Women Chose the Bear: A Reflection on Fear and Safety

amyhoney October 29, 2024 October 21, 2024MEME's

Recently, social media posed a question that left many people reflecting deeply on the reality women face every day. The question was simple: “If you’re alone in the woods, would you rather run into a bear or a strange man?” For many women, the answer was clear—they would rather face the bear. But why? The reasons behind this answer reveal much about the state of safety and trust for women in today’s world. It’s not a light-hearted comparison; it’s a stark reflection of the fears and experiences that women navigate every single day. Here’s why many women chose the bear, and why it matters that we listen. 1. The Bear Won’t Gaslight You Into Liking It When faced with danger, a bear is driven by instinct, not manipulation. It won’t tell you to act like you’re enjoying the encounter. Women know that if they face a strange man with ill intentions, they could be coerced or manipulated, with their own survival hinging on compliance. Recently, social media posed a question that left many people reflecting deeply on the reality women face every day. The question was simple: “If you’re alone in the woods, would you rather run into a bear or a strange man?” For many women, the answer was clear—they would rather face the bear. But why? The reasons behind this answer reveal much about the state of safety and trust for women in today’s world. It’s not a light-hearted comparison; it’s a stark reflection of the fears and experiences that women navigate every…

Fairy Tales Are Cute, But Real Queens Fight for Rights

amyhoney October 23, 2024 October 20, 2024MEME's

Fairy tales have painted us a picture of queens in elegant gowns, sitting gracefully on their thrones, or waiting for their prince to come and save the day. But the reality of what it means to be a “queen” in today’s world is far from the dainty stories we grew up with. In fact, real queens are not waiting to be saved—they are leading movements, breaking barriers, and fighting for their rights and the rights of others. Shifting the Narrative: From Fairy Tales to Reality Fairy tales often present an idealized version of womanhood—passive, quiet, and waiting for things to happen. This portrayal, while cute in a storybook, doesn’t reflect the power and resilience of women in real life. True queens are not defined by crowns and castles; they are defined by their courage to stand up, speak out, and challenge the status quo. Throughout history, and even now, we’ve seen women breaking chains, shattering glass ceilings, and standing in solidarity for change. Real queens are the advocates, the leaders, and the ones who push against limitations placed on them. They’re rewriting what it means to be a queen—not in the sense of royalty but in the sense of resilience, leadership, and empowerment. Fighting for Rights: The True Mark of a Queen What does it mean to fight for your rights? It means not settling for less than you deserve. It means raising your voice even when society tells you to stay quiet. It means facing opposition and still standing…

The Power of Letting Go: Why Silence and Inaction Are Your Greatest Tools

amyhoney October 19, 2024 October 19, 2024MEME's

We live in a world that often glorifies confrontation and reaction. We’re taught that power comes from speaking up, fighting back, and taking immediate action. But sometimes, the strongest response is no response at all. It’s choosing to starve the things that no longer serve you. This idea is not about passivity or avoidance—it’s about the deliberate and intentional choice to protect your peace. The Energy Cost of Reaction Everything we engage with consumes our energy—whether it’s an argument with a friend, defending yourself from a critic, or holding onto something painful from the past. Often, we think by responding or reacting, we are protecting ourselves or addressing the situation. But in reality, our energy is a finite resource, and not every battle is worth the drain it causes. When we feed negativity, drama, or situations beyond our control, we give away our power to external forces. We essentially allow those things to dictate our emotions, our actions, and our mental state. But here’s the shift: what if you chose not to respond? Not to give these things your attention or energy? Starving What Doesn’t Serve You The idea of “starving” something means withdrawing the energy and attention that keeps it alive. Imagine the negativity or conflict as a fire—by constantly fueling it with responses, arguments, or attention, we allow it to grow and consume more of our peace. But when we withdraw that fuel, the fire dies down on its own. It loses its power over us. Choosing not…

Please Vote To Honor Those That Fought For Your Right to Vote

amyhoney November 6, 2022 October 19, 2024Amy Jo Honey, MEME's

I have a huge confession to make. I never voted until I turned 39 years old. I didn’t really understand our history, I had no idea women weren’t allowed to own a credit card until the laws changed in 1974. Only married women could own a credit card. And I had no idea that women weren’t allowed to apply for their own business loan UNTIL 1988!!! I had no idea womens rights were that far behind. After all, I had been raised by a very misogynistic society. So, misogyny just felt normal. Until my adult daughter began pointing it out to me, I have to admit, I was naive. I was also taught that if you were a woman that fought for the rights of other women, then you were a feminist. And feminists were bad. They are gay, and they hate men. Of course, I don’t believe that, but, the misogynists in my family really REALLY wanted me to believe that. I’m pretty sure I’m making them cringe with this very post right now. ‘Okay, here she goes.’ And as far as voting…… who had time to learn about who all these people were? I just felt unqualified. So, voting wasn’t for me. My parents never really explained, and I was just told that polite girls never talk about politics or religion. Now I’m pretty sure my dad just knew I would vote opposite…

Three Things You Should Do Before You Speak

amyhoney November 5, 2022 October 19, 2024Amy Jo Honey, MEME's, Mindset

I believe it was Socrates that initially said this. The Three Things You Should Do Before You Speak, is you should run it through these three filters, or ask yourself these 3 questions. Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? This is a great rule to live by! This can ensure you never put your own foot in your mouth. LOL! But, seriously, could you imagine the kind of world we could all live in if we all did this? It would be pretty cool, huh?