My Bestie Was Unalived in 1990.

In 1990, my best friend was unalived by a 25-year-old man. She was barely 20. He beat her so savagely with a baseball bat that blood and brain matter touched the ceiling of her 18 foot loft. That’s the image I still carry. At first, we all blamed her fiancé. He was abusive, angry, and controlling. So of course we thought it was him. We alienated him. Shut him out. He lost his fiancée and all his friends in one horrifying moment. But it wasn’t him. It was her neighbor. Just a weak man that was obsessed with her. And yeah… if you don’t want to be accused of unaliving someone, maybe don’t beat your partner Here’s what still makes my blood boil. The man child who did it begged the judge for leniency. Because he “had his whole life ahead of him.” Fricking narcissists! You know what the judge said? He said it was one of the most brutal cases he had ever seen. Then he gave him the maximum sentence allowed by law at the time: 15 years. That was it. That’s what her life was worth. Meanwhile, that guy is currently out. He got out when he was 40, and he brutalized the family by appealing every chance he got, and forcing them to relive the horror. And now here’s the part that connects the dots: 90% of people who commit gRape or redrum like this are men. And in 1990, only about 6% of Congress were women. So…

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Hope in the Face of Control – Rising Above Fear and Oppression

In times of uncertainty, when those in power seem determined to tighten their grip, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. It’s easy to believe that the system is too big, too corrupt, too impossible to change. That’s exactly what they want you to think. Instead, we are going to choose rising above fear and oppression. They want you to feel trauma.Because a traumatized mind is easier to manipulate. When you are constantly anxious, constantly reacting, constantly in a state of survival mode, you don’t have the energy to resist. You don’t have the clarity to think for yourself. You don’t have the strength to rise. They want you to feel hopeless.Because when you believe nothing will ever change, you stop trying. You stop questioning. You stop standing up for yourself and for those around you. They want you to accept the world as they’ve designed it—where you have no power, no voice, no future beyond what they allow. They want you to feel powerless.Because people who believe they have no control will not fight back. They will not unite. They will not challenge authority. Powerless people become obedient people. And obedience, without question, is how oppression thrives. But here’s what they don’t want you to realize. Your spirit is stronger than their control. Your mind is capable of breaking free from their narrative. And, your heart is resilient beyond their imagination. You are not powerless.You are not alone.And no system, no government, no force in history has ever been able to suppress people who refuse to…

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Not only is laughter good medicine, it also leads to greater sales success.

Edutainers and founders of Improv For Impact and Sales Tai Chi, Amy and Jamie Honey use improv and game-play to empower companies and sales teams to build healthier cultures and greater sales success. In today’s conversation, Amy and Jamie explain the benefits of improv and how you can incorporate it into a powerful personal development program for yourself and your teams; one that fosters creativity, innovation and higher performance. We also explore the essence of sales and how to transform your beliefs and habits in order to connect better with your clients, communicate your value proposition and enroll others in doing business with you. Amy and Jamie Honey navigate being in business together, traveling together, and marriage.    It’s all about the honesty, friendship, and fun!   And overcoming obstacles together!  Listen to episode #28 with the Honeys at Bedrooms and Boardrooms

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Power Of Attorney w/ LeTonya F. Moore – DARE To Be You

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Amy Honey is a health and habits specialist. In our philosophy, health encompasses absolutely everything in your life. You exercise, sleep, hydration, nutrition and emotional environment. The emotional environment is the most important and includes your job, your money, your happiness, your relationships, and your stress levels. Listen at https://www.spreaker.com/user/therealperspectivesshow/dare-to-be-you-with-amy-honey

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Fairy Tales Are Cute, But Real Queens Fight for Rights

Fairy tales have painted us a picture of queens in elegant gowns, sitting gracefully on their thrones, or waiting for their prince to come and save the day. But the reality of what it means to be a “queen” in today’s world is far from the dainty stories we grew up with. In fact, real queens are not waiting to be saved—they are leading movements, breaking barriers, and fighting for their rights and the rights of others. Shifting the Narrative: From Fairy Tales to Reality Fairy tales often present an idealized version of womanhood—passive, quiet, and waiting for things to happen. This portrayal, while cute in a storybook, doesn’t reflect the power and resilience of women in real life. True queens are not defined by crowns and castles; they are defined by their courage to stand up, speak out, and challenge the status quo. Throughout history, and even now, we’ve seen women breaking chains, shattering glass ceilings, and standing in solidarity for change. Real queens are the advocates, the leaders, and the ones who push against limitations placed on them. They’re rewriting what it means to be a queen—not in the sense of royalty but in the sense of resilience, leadership, and empowerment. Fighting for Rights: The True Mark of a Queen What does it mean to fight for your rights? It means not settling for less than you deserve. It means raising your voice even when society tells you to stay quiet. It means facing opposition and still standing…

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The Power of Letting Go: Why Silence and Inaction Are Your Greatest Tools

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We live in a world that often glorifies confrontation and reaction. We’re taught that power comes from speaking up, fighting back, and taking immediate action. But sometimes, the strongest response is no response at all. It’s choosing to starve the things that no longer serve you. This idea is not about passivity or avoidance—it’s about the deliberate and intentional choice to protect your peace. The Energy Cost of Reaction Everything we engage with consumes our energy—whether it’s an argument with a friend, defending yourself from a critic, or holding onto something painful from the past. Often, we think by responding or reacting, we are protecting ourselves or addressing the situation. But in reality, our energy is a finite resource, and not every battle is worth the drain it causes. When we feed negativity, drama, or situations beyond our control, we give away our power to external forces. We essentially allow those things to dictate our emotions, our actions, and our mental state. But here’s the shift: what if you chose not to respond? Not to give these things your attention or energy? Starving What Doesn’t Serve You The idea of “starving” something means withdrawing the energy and attention that keeps it alive. Imagine the negativity or conflict as a fire—by constantly fueling it with responses, arguments, or attention, we allow it to grow and consume more of our peace. But when we withdraw that fuel, the fire dies down on its own. It loses its power over us. Choosing not…

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Anite Petty: Are you ready to take control of your financial destiny? Money Switch is your roadmap to flipping your mindset and embracing a life of abundance

Are you ready to take control of your financial destiny? Money Switch: Flip Yourself onto Happiness, Health, & Wealth – The New System for Financial Intelligence by Anita Petty is your ultimate guide to transforming your mindset and embracing a life of abundance. This groundbreaking book offers a fresh perspective on how to achieve true financial intelligence—not just in terms of money, but in all aspects of your life, including health and happiness. In Money Switch, Anita reveals that financial struggles often stem from deeper mindset issues. He introduces readers to the concept of “flipping” their mindset, encouraging a shift from limiting beliefs to empowering thoughts. This book isn’t just about crunching numbers; it’s about understanding the psychology behind your relationship with money. By addressing these underlying beliefs, you can break free from the cycle of financial stress and begin to cultivate a mindset geared toward success and fulfillment. Anita’s approach is holistic, recognizing that wealth is not just a number in your bank account, but a feeling of abundance that encompasses health, happiness, and personal growth. He provides practical strategies and actionable steps to help you identify and eliminate negative thought patterns that hold you back. Through engaging anecdotes, insightful exercises, and transformative tools, Money Switch empowers you to create a new narrative around your finances. One of the standout features of this book is its emphasis on self-awareness. Anita encourages readers to dig deep and understand their core beliefs about money. Are you sabotaging your financial success due…

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Adele Saccarelli-Cavallaro: In the search for Oz, the greatest treasures aren’t found on the road, but within ourselves.

In “Searching for Oz” by Adele Saccarelli-Cavallaro, we’re taken on a journey that feels familiar to all of us—the search for meaning, fulfillment, and that elusive feeling of “having made it.” For so many, the idea of Oz represents this magical place where all of life’s problems are solved. It’s a destination where everything finally falls into place. But as Adele beautifully illustrates throughout the book, the greatest treasures we seek aren’t found at the end of the yellow brick road. In fact, they aren’t found on the road at all. They’re within us. Think about how often we look for happiness outside of ourselves. We set goals, chase achievements, or seek approval, thinking, “Once I get there, I’ll be happy,” or “Once I achieve this, I’ll feel complete.” Whether it’s a better job, a relationship, or financial success, it’s easy to believe that something external will magically bring fulfillment. But Adele reminds us that the real treasure—whether it’s courage, self-love, peace, or wisdom—has always been inside us. We just forget to look there. In the book, we’re reminded of the characters from the classic tale: the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Cowardly Lion. Each of them believed they were missing something essential—a brain, a heart, or courage—and they thought Oz was the place to find it. But by the end of their journey, they discovered that everything they needed was already within them. The Scarecrow had his intelligence, the Tin Man had a heart, and the Lion had…

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Dorris Burch: Can a woman be both self-aware and powerfully confident? Discover the secret to being truly fabulous

Can a woman be both self-aware and powerfully confident? Absolutely! In The Little Black Book of Being Fabulous by Dorris Burch, we dive into the magic that happens when these two traits come together. Being fabulous isn’t just about how you look; it’s about who you are inside and how that reflects in your everyday life. Self-awareness is the foundation. It’s about really knowing yourself—understanding your thoughts, emotions, and how you interact with the world. A self-aware woman gets what makes her tick, what her strengths are, and even where she can improve. This kind of insight doesn’t just help her navigate life more smoothly; it also allows her to be authentic and genuine, which is incredibly attractive. But let’s talk about confidence, because that’s the spark that lights the fire. Confidence is all about owning your self-awareness. When you’re confident, you carry yourself in a way that says, “I know who I am, and I’m proud of it.” It’s about stepping into any situation, big or small, with assurance. You’re not seeking approval from others because you’ve already given it to yourself. When a woman combines self-awareness with confidence, she becomes a force to be reckoned with. It’s not about being the loudest person in the room; it’s about having a presence that draws people in. Imagine walking into a gathering and effortlessly capturing attention—not because you’re trying to stand out, but because you’re simply being yourself. That’s the kind of power that comes from knowing who you are…

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Jen Du Plessis: Success is sweeter when it’s unexpected. Tell Me I Can’t, and I’ll show you the impossible made real

Success is sweeter when it’s unexpected. Tell me I can’t, and I’ll show you the impossible made real. There’s something about being told, “you can’t” that just hits different, isn’t there? For some, it’s discouraging—like a weight pulling them down. But for others, it’s the spark that ignites a fire within. In Tell Me I Can’t, Jen Du Plessis talks about this exact feeling, about using that doubt as fuel to make the impossible possible. When someone tells you, “you can’t,” it’s tempting to believe them, especially if the odds seem stacked against you. But that’s where the magic happens. You get to make a choice: do you accept that as truth, or do you take it as a challenge to push harder and prove that anything is possible? For Jen, and for so many of us who’ve been counted out, the choice is simple—we prove them wrong. And here’s the thing—success is never easy. It’s messy. It’s full of long nights, quiet sacrifices, and moments of doubt. But when you achieve it, especially when no one expects you to, there’s no feeling quite like it. Jen captures this perfectly in her book. She talks about how those small, unexpected wins become personal victories. When people don’t see it coming, that success feels even sweeter, like you’ve quietly snuck in and claimed something that was meant for you all along. When people say “you can’t,” they’re not just doubting your ability—they’re trying to put limits on what you can achieve. But…

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